Dirty Secret Saturday

My dirty little secret...

Many people don't know a whole lot about my ex-husband and that he has a son who is 5 years younger than myself.

And that he had been in jail several times during our marriage.

And that he has had warrants out for his arrest during our marriage.

And that I divorced him while we was in jail the third time during our marriage.

 

arguments you won't win

Have you ever been blind-sided by a "conversation" that comes across as a directed phrase, with an overtone of argument? It's one of those where you are damned if you do or damned if you don't... respond to the "statement". I already know I'm doomed, so why fight it. No matter what I say (or don't say), the tone will be wrong, or there will be some type of attitude attached.  No matter what, I am wrong, she is right, and that is that! And I know, that if I were to say what I want to say... I might as well write my life off now!